Beneficial Conflict
I recently heard a friend, Ralph Garay, talking about the affect that problems and difficulties can have in our life. Ralph pointed out that not much good happens in our life that is not born in some trouble or conflict. As I have been reading the Scriptures in observance of this Passion season, I could not help but notice the intentional stirring of trouble that Jesus caused. There would have been several good opportunities for Him to have avoided the brutal ending in Jerusalem. He could have passed on going to the Passover Feast. He certainly could have avoided the clear release that He gave to Judas to perform his act of treason, but it was as if Jesus could not stop pressing for the conflict.
We know, theologically, that He was being intentional. The conflict brought about His death, which brings about our opportunity for being reconciled to the Father.
I hear story after story of under lying conflict in our churches. Most of what I hear about is how to deal with it, which usually means, "How do we keep it for occurring, or becoming a big mess?"
The truth is, for most of our churches a good healthy conflict would be a welcome experience. many of the situations that cripple and derail the work and ministry of most churches will probably never be dealt with in a manner that resolves. But if a church, and if we as leaders will go ahead and allow the conflict to come and get it out on the table and then allow the Holy Spirit to help us deal with it in a healthy manner, then perhaps the stronghold of control and manipulation can be broken. I see many settings where entire congregation are held captive by the threat of "causing a scene."
Maybe we ought to go ahead and live up to our "fighting Baptist" title and and allow the soldiers to come on in and get some resolution. I fear that our fear of "trouble" is going to end up in the greatest trouble of all, we will be found sitting by the wayside, handcuffed by threatens of trouble, while the Holy Spirit marches right on past us in His carrying out the ministry of Jesus. Perhaps this Easter season we ought to hear His words again, "If any one will be My disciple, let him take up His cross and follow me." Healthy conflict usually sees positive forward moves.
We know, theologically, that He was being intentional. The conflict brought about His death, which brings about our opportunity for being reconciled to the Father.
I hear story after story of under lying conflict in our churches. Most of what I hear about is how to deal with it, which usually means, "How do we keep it for occurring, or becoming a big mess?"
The truth is, for most of our churches a good healthy conflict would be a welcome experience. many of the situations that cripple and derail the work and ministry of most churches will probably never be dealt with in a manner that resolves. But if a church, and if we as leaders will go ahead and allow the conflict to come and get it out on the table and then allow the Holy Spirit to help us deal with it in a healthy manner, then perhaps the stronghold of control and manipulation can be broken. I see many settings where entire congregation are held captive by the threat of "causing a scene."
Maybe we ought to go ahead and live up to our "fighting Baptist" title and and allow the soldiers to come on in and get some resolution. I fear that our fear of "trouble" is going to end up in the greatest trouble of all, we will be found sitting by the wayside, handcuffed by threatens of trouble, while the Holy Spirit marches right on past us in His carrying out the ministry of Jesus. Perhaps this Easter season we ought to hear His words again, "If any one will be My disciple, let him take up His cross and follow me." Healthy conflict usually sees positive forward moves.

